Books in our Hall of Blind Guides
We are not making any personal aspersions or accusations against the character of any person or author listed here. We are simply announcing that this list represents well known organisations, theologians, pastors, counselors and others who are in our opinion, not safe resources for abuse victims.
A Loving Life: In a World of Broken Relationships
by Paul E. Miller
Angry Men and the Women Who Love Them
by Paul Hegstrom
The Bondage Breaker
by Neil Anderson
Created to be his Helpmeet
by Debi Pearl
Divorce and Remarriage: A Permanence View
by Daryl Wingerd, Jim Elliff, Jim Chrisman, and Steve Burchett
The Excellent Wife
by Martha Peace
See our blog post about Martha Peace
For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men
by Shaunti Feldhahn
His Needs Her Needs
by Willard Harley Jr.
Hope & Help for the Single Mom
by Lori Little.
See our blog post that critiques this series.
Lies Women Believe
by Nancy Leigh DeMoss
(author married in November 2015: Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth)
Love and Respect
by Emerson Eggerichs
See Nate Spark’s reviews of this book.
The Love Dare
by Alex Kendrick and Stephen Kendrick.
See our blog post critiquing this book.
Me? Obey Him?: The Obedient Wife and God’s Way of Happiness and Blessing in the Home
by Elizabeth Rice Handford
This Momentary Marriage
by John Piper
The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict
by Ken Sande
The Power of a Praying Wife
by Stormie Omartian
Redemptive Divorce – A Biblical process that offers guidance for the Suffering Partner, Healing for the Offending Spouse, and the Best Catalyst for Restoration
by Mark W. Gaither
See our post: “Redemptive Divorce” by Mark Gaither — another bad book for domestic abuse
Sacred Influence: How God Uses Wives to Shape the Souls of Their Husbands
by Gary Thomas
Trapped: Getting Free From People, Patterns, and Problems
by Andy Farmer, CCEF Faculty
Verbal & Emotional Abuse: VIctory Over Verbal and Emotional Abuse
How to Rise Above Abuse: Victory for Victims of Five Types of Abuse
by June Hunt
What to do When You are Abused by Your Husband
by Debi Pryde and Robert Needham
You can be the Wife of a Happy Husband: Discovering the Keys to Marital Success
by Darien B Cooper