This site contains material to help you understand safety planning, make a safety plan for yourself, make a safety plan with family and friends, and provides a checklist for staying safe. This site is Australian but most of what its information is applicable to all countries.
by Lundy Bancroft
by Lundy Bancroft and J G Silverman
A new free app to help victims of domestic violence record evidence of their abusive relationships and seek professional help was launched in the UK. The app, called Bright Sky, encourages people experiencing domestic abuse to log private journal entires in the form of text, photos and videos, which are then sent to a designated email address. This information can be sent to the authorities at a later date.
Cell Phone & Location Safety Strategies
Cell Phone Location, Privacy and Intimate Partner Violence
Cell Phone: Location Tracking and Sharing
These three PDFs provide excellent information about how smartphones can be used by abusers to stalk their victims. These PDFs are found at Technology Safety website.
With Circle of 6 app you can connect with your friends to stay close, stay safe and prevent violence before it happens. The Circle of 6 app for iPhone and Android makes it quick and easy to reach the 6 friends you choose.
by Lundy Bancroft
by Jennifer Perry
This safety plan is useful for all victims, but especially for those who have trouble reading or use English as their second language. It provides step-by-step instructions for implementing a safety plan regardless of whether the victim is living with the abuser, leaving the abuser, or has already left. It is used courtesy of the Outer South Peninsula Integrated Family Violence Partnership, Melbourne, Australia. Information and phone numbers have been changed to reflect organizations in the USA.
This is the original safety plan courtesy of the Outer South Peninsula Integrated Family VIolence Partnership, Melbourne, Australia, thus all information is pertinent to Australia.
This is a Spanish translation of the Easy English Safety Plan, USA, listed above.
Ensure that a victim’s words about her fears and previous violence will not disappear if she does.
A victim can make an Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit (EAA) to document her experiences in ways that will help the legal system successfully prosecute in the future, even if she is disappeared, dead or in a coma.
The process combines video taping of the victim’s actual words attesting to the abuse, coupled with witnessed and notarized legal documents that successfully satisfy legal hurdles often faced in intimate partner violence and stalking cases.
A unique packaging of testimony + documentation + perpetrator historical profiling + pre-collected evidence delivered to established safe and legal persons = a delicate issue brilliantly wrapped up for successful prosecution.
Here is the information on how to remove yourself from Family Tree Now.
Step #1: Go to www.familytreenow.com/optout and read carefully through the steps. After reading the steps, confirm you are not a robot with reCAPTCHA and then click on the green “Begin Opt Out Procedure” button. Picture #1
Step #2: Fill out the form that comes up to search their records. Picture #2
Step #3: Once the results come up click on the record to open it up and read it to be sure that it is you. If several options come up, look at all of them to find your records. Once you have found your record, click on the red “Opt Out This Record” button.
This five minute video is by Women’s Health West and Victoria Police of Victoria, Australia. It features local women demonstrating simple and practice ways of gathering evidence. Note: This video is from Victoria, Australia, where protection orders are called “intervention orders’ and the emergency phone number is 000, not 911 as in the USA.
Once a victim of domestic violence decides to leave her abuser, she might turn to a domestic violence shelter to help her. What are these shelters like? What can she expect when she arrives? This video takes you on a tour of the inside of one such shelter.
Risk and Threat Assessment tool you can do online; and it’s free. Risk assessment is a vital ingredient in safety planning. The Mosaic method was developed by Gavin de Becker, author of the excellent book The Gift Of Fear. Mosaic helps the assessor weigh the present situation in light of expert opinion and research, and instantly compare the present situation to past cases where the outcomes are known.
The appendix of this PDF workbook has a good information on how to create and implement a safety plan.
This website is for the parent involved in a custody dispute where a potential abuser, his/her legal team, or Child Protective Services has accused you of false reporting or characterized you as vengeful and mentally ill.
by Brian Willingham
This article discusses how federal and state laws affect how and if you can record phone calls and conversations.
This article gives an overview of what one needs to be mindful of when considering electronic recordings. This article is also available in Spanish.
Red Flags — Risk Factors that may indicate that victims are at an increased risk of being killed or almost killed.
DVRCV (Domestic Violence Resource Centre Victoria) has released a new infographic “Red Flags” highlighting the factors that put family violence victims at increased risk of being killed or seriously injured. This infographic comes as a PDF and can be downloaded here. We encourage you to print this PDF and share it with those needing to learn more about domestic violence and abuse.
For practitioners and victim-advocates, this article explains what is necessary to understand and assess risk. Also includes an excellent introduction to risk assessment video.
The National (USA) Domestic Violence Hotline’s tips for safety planning
by Lundy Bancroft
This is an Australian site with How-to Videos on smartphone safety for Android phones. Video instructions include topics such as Turning geotagging off your photos on an Android phone, Immediate safety settings for an Android phone, Turn off location history on an Android phone, Taking a screenshot for evidence collection on an Android phone, etc.
LiveWatch website provides links to self-defense information and training.
Mental Health First Aid guidelines for helping people who are feeling suicidal
TalkingParents is designed to help parents avoid disputes by keeping a complete record of communications. They maintain the record as an independent third party, making sure parents cannot delete or alter anything they have said.
from National Network to End Domestic Violence. This site has several resources to help victims and agencies respond effectively to the many ways that technology impacts victims of domestic and dating violence, sexual violence, and stalking.
from Domestic Violence Resource Centre Victoria, Australia. This site addresses the new avenues for abuse that technologies such as the internet, email and mobile phones have opened up.
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by Dr George Simon Jr